Fine, we have all heard that myth - that "nice guys" do not make it and the 'bad boys" attract women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy vs a nice guy.

I believe there are other personality factors involved that possibly bad boys and nice guys have that are the establishing qualities of attraction.

Bad boys usually are less shy, but in addition they are more confident in general than nice guys. I think that it would be these personalities that are attracting a woman not the fact that a guy is bad.

I personally almost never use the "bad boy" technique when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. But, I am not an easy guy to hook and women can tell that quickly when talking to me. I am a little aloof, I don't compliment women when I initially meet them or tell them how beautiful they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am fascinated with them or just being good.

That is what sets me beyond a "nice guy". Women see me as a good gentleman but haven't a clue if I love them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - enjoy that. They are sick and tired of meeting men who praise them.

Girls like guys who are interesting and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be special. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without stating a word about their beauty verbally or non-verbally - now that is both appealing and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also do not forget that women have different personalities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique differs from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking woman may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a community of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little bad and naughty to be interesting and special. A woman who knows nothing but arrogant and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.

You see no matter what you are like there is a person for you. But you have to define who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet persons like that. So regardless of if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a state where you are interesting and different to the women you come across and you will be successful.

One of the most difficult things to learn in life is that no matter what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly suitable to you. Even if you are dull there are women who are completely compatible with that. Not every one likes to meet and hook up with the life of the gathering.

The problem is people who don't acknowledge themselves for who they are, try to act differently and they are not being themselves, so they don't attract anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you actually are, you will realize that there are people who will embrace you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are unexciting or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will get a girl who will accept you for who you are.

Are you looking to branch out and meet new people? You may not have much luck in bars or clubs. This is why more and more people are turning to the internet. Here are some ways that you can use the Internet to double your dating.

In the past, i.e. the 1990's, online dating was a brand new idea. Unlike today, most people did not own PC's or even have access to the internet. Times have changed. Online dating is not only IN the mainstream, it IS the mainstream.

The sooner you realize this sad but true fact, the sooner you can get on with finding Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect. You ARE going to have to actively seek the man of your dreams and you won't find him hiding under your bed.

OK ... the time has come. You have joined an online dating service or two. Now you must write that all-important profile... the one that will attract attention and reel in the man of your dreams... but where to start?

What to do to get the conversation going when there is seemingly nothing to talk about. How to spark conversation with ANY girl in a very simple and effective manner.

Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Rather than running away from the situation, lower the gradient.

How to successfully handle a woman who is sending confusing flirtations - and how to spot a woman who is flirting just for fun.

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