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| | When we talk about the subjects of approaching women, or how to approach women, we invariably come up with the skill of conversation being important to the skill of how to approach women with success.
I've always praised at my ability to start conversation with anybody at any time about any subject - even when there is supposedly "nothing to talk about". It's a knack I have and in this article I will tell you the SIMPLE secret to my success.
The best way to spark a conversation is to ask questions. Too simple? Well, let me explain.
What do you ask questions regarding?
Well, I always just ask questions about something I want to know. It differs from person to person. But typically if I am meeting someone new I might ask questions like "Do you have brothers and sisters?" "Do you get along with your parents?" "Do you have a lot of friends?"
Usually a person chats for a while when answering and that gives you more data to ask even more questions about. At times I will make a statement if it is appropriate or if they ask me a question in response to my question I just answer their question then ask them another one of my questions.
The hard times are when people just give you "yes" and "no" type answers. That doesn't give much to work off of.
When I feel the situation is uncomfortable or the person isn't speaking much (like the above "yes" and "no" responses), then I talk about how awkward the situation is. Say something like "This is embarrassing. I feel so awkward. I don't know what to say. Do you feel awkward too?"
Generally you can get a little conversation going on that topic and ease a lot of stress just by acknowledging that you feel awkward and don't know what to say. Then move onto a question like "Ok, let's see what we can talk about. What are your interests? Do you have any pastime activities?"
Another questioning technique is to look at what a person puts their focus on and discuss or ask questions about that. So, for example, if you are in a restaurant and the person you are dating isn't talking much, just reading the menu, you might say "Kind of an exciting menu. What looks good to you?" That might encourage a conversation about food items or restaurants and menus, etc.
This method is also good for meeting strangers. If you are in a grocery store next to some one attractive who is looking at "lamb chops" you might say: "I see you are interested in the lamb chops. Do you know an excellent way to cook them, I've always wished to try them, but just don't know how to make them."
Remember also that you are not necessarily going to get along with everyone you meet. So if you try, try, and try to get a decent conversation going and it doesn't happen then this is possibly not the best person for you.
You ARE going to have to actively seek the man of your dreams and you won't find him hiding under your bed. You already know that he isn't among the men that you are acquainted with so, now what? Online dating is "what".
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The sooner you realize this sad but true fact, the sooner you can get on with finding Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect. You ARE going to have to actively seek the man of your dreams and you won't find him hiding under your bed.
In the past, i.e. the 1990's, online dating was a brand new idea. Unlike today, most people did not own PC's or even have access to the internet. Times have changed. Online dating is not only IN the mainstream, it IS the mainstream.
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The odds of finding your "soul-mate" online are a lot better than you may think. It doesn't happen for everyone, of course, but it can happen for you. The world of internet or online dating has exploded over the last few years.
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